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It Is Happening Again

Like clockwork, they think they are helping my destiny when they take advantage of me.

They think they've won.

The God in me often glues my mouth shut in these circumstances. 

 He can feel my hurt and how disappointed I am. 

This time, He quietly reminded me in His own way, that this has happened before. He told me of their end. One of them recently paid me back handsomely. Others wish they have the opportunity to repay their unkindness.

It may continue to happen as long as I allow it. I am often helpless but I won't allow this to continue. I prefer my other option; my disappearing act.

I chose to be naive and unsophisticated in many life situations. I still think I have seen the worst life has to offer and may continue my disappearing act to avoid more trauma and conflict.

It is despicable to take advantage of people. 

It is not being woke, you are just evil whether you are the yahoo boy who defrauds an un-educated market seller or the colleague who thinks gossiping about others will get him brownie points with his senior colleague or the Founder who wants to "train" or "mold" a young lady to the position he sees fit but later thinks she is unqualified.

Another Founder/Entrepreneur desperate for success, takes whatever free service he gets and decides not to pay because he does not see the reason to pay an already agreed invoice.

I have seen these scenarios play out in my life and I can authoritatively tell you that you will meet your waterloo.

The yahoo boy met me in one of my previous places of employment. I will refrain from sharing what happened to the Founders and colleague(s).

Is this blog an attempt at self-righteousness? I do not know. What I do know is that I am currently sad that the people my Saviour died for will call His Name yet choose to be evil.

If you are in my shoes, don't continue to walk in them. Those shoes are too uncomfortable. Learn to fight back as much as The Holy Spirit allows you to.

I am off to celebrate Christ's Death and Resurrection. I got miracles waiting for his resurrection twice. Read one here

Regards,

Jane

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